enjoy life/relation/100% trustable

Good Afternoon, I am writing this in English, because I am looking (withouth wanting to be arogant) for an inteligent woman that is in the same position as I am. This being in a good relations that you dont want to leave, but next to that you are looking for good talks, intimacy, tenderness and good sex that takes longer then 3 minutes including foreplay. Not stepping in eachothers life, just enjoying what you can get. I am 45 years old, looking younger, not polish, but speaking polish, and feel to young for retirement. I am not a psycho-therapist, and am not interesting in sponsoring. In general this add is adressed to women till 40-42 years of age, but in case you feel young, feel free to react. I will write back to every mail i get.